Girls, come on!!!!🙄

Alone 

Right now I'm in a state of mind 

I wanna be in like all the time

Ain't got no tears left to cry

Sometimes I wonder how long it’ll take until I truly realise that being alone doesn’t necessarily mean being lonely. Our idealistic thoughts of romantic love tend to create confusing beliefs which end up making us prisoners of an eternal illusion. Prisoners of an unrealistic self. How do we escape this wrong idea? 

   I chose that photo for the post because when I saw it I thought “aw, I wish I could have a partner to take pictures like that”. It happens to me almost every time. Seeing romantic relationships on Pinterest, in films, or while walking on the streets and wanting to have a boyfriend so bad. And then remembering that first I must learn to love myself before loving anyone else. It’s normal to hope to see both sides of the coin; it’s just that there’ll come that time when we’ll have to decide which one we’ll bet with, once and for all. 

   We are always making decisions, so let’s be conscious of deciding things that’ll protect ourselves; in the first place, decisions must be based on us, because what we believe will give us the joy of carrying on in the road of life incredibly satisfied with ourselves. We have to take our hopes out of the otherness, and live to achieve our own happiness. We must give ourselves a chance. Let me tell you my secret! Do not live of expectations, live of realities. That’s what we should do. And I don’t mean not having dreams, but instead feeling so deeply dived in reality that false expectations won’t be able to fool us anymore. Reality exceeds fiction! Remember to pay attention to the little things to be filled with positive energy and love yourself before wanting to find THE ONE. You deserve so much!!

With love, 

–V🌼